Many of us have heard the saying… “You can’t love others unless you love yourself.” On the face of it, the saying seems logical enough. However, over the years I’ve noticed that it repeatedly fails to ring true in real … Continue reading →
When unpleasant things happen, it is so very tempting and almost second nature for us to blame the tangible, the external circumstances, others, malfunctioning things. Unfortunately, blaming, revenge, avoidance, ignoring, and telling ourselves to just forget about it and move … Continue reading →
A flat tire is a tangible annoyance. Homework problems are tangible. Annoying siblings are tangible. Traffic jams, paper jams, spilled juice, and crumbs… all tangible issues. It’s easy to point a blaming finger at the weather, the crabby sales clerk, … Continue reading →